Lois Elaine Rexwinkle

Elaine Rexwinkle, beloved daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away on November 13th, 2023, at the age of 74 in Grand Lake, Oklahoma. She was born on April 5th, 1949, in Coffeyville, Kansas, to the late W. Wayne and Joy ValJean Kallenberger. Elaine's warm and loving nature touched the lives of all who knew her. Elaine's journey began in Kechi, Kansas, where she spent her early years before moving to Mound City, Kansas. On February 18th, 1967, she married M. Ron King, and together they had 2 daughters and divorced in 1978. After their divorce, Elaine moved to South Coffeeville, where she discovered her soulmate, W. Dale Rexwinkle. They exchanged vows on April 18th, 1980. Elaine's heart overflowed with unconditional love for her family. She was a devoted mother to her daughters, Lisa McMillan (Bob), Melissa Tennant (Brad) and Rita Shelton (Ed). Her grandchildren, Kara Jacobs (Josh), Lainey Drake (David), Mitchell Roche (Colby), Stetson Haverkamp (Allyson), Cameron Moody (Victoria), Krista Bell, Katie Rexwinkle, Kailee Schwader (Riley), Molly Sternberg (Richard), Dillon Koester, AJ Shelton, and Amanda Chancellor (Adam) were her greatest treasures. Elaine was also blessed with 22 great-grandchildren, who affectionately called her "Gigi Momma." She adored each and every one of them. Elaine's warm and welcoming nature extended beyond her family. She had an extraordinary ability to make everyone she met feel loved and cherished. Her generosity knew no bounds, and she welcomed everyone with open arms. Elaine's love for the outdoors led her to spend countless hours on the pontoon at Grand Lake, whether it was fishing or simply enjoying a leisurely ride. Her joy and zest for life were contagious, and the memories she created will forever be cherished by her family and friends. In addition to her loving family, Elaine is survived by her mother, Joy ValJean Thorton, and her brothers, Larry Kallenberger (Laura), Donnie Kallenberger (Regina), and Barry Kallenberger (Audrey). She was preceded in death by her father, Wayne Kallenberger, her brother Kenneth Kallenberger, her daughter Melissa Tennant, her granddaughter Katie Rexwinkle, and her great-grandson Beckham Sternberg. Elaine also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews, all of whom held a special place in her heart. Elaine's professional journey was marked by dedication and hard work. She held various roles throughout her career, including working at JenCast in South Coffeeville, Sirloin Stockade in Coffeyville, Craig Co. District, and Nowata Co. District. She eventually became a purchasing agent and retired in 2011, leaving behind a legacy of professionalism and commitment. Outside of her career, Elaine found immense joy in spending time with her family and friends. Whether it was fishing, swimming in the lake, or simply enjoying each other's company, Elaine's presence brought happiness to those around her. A Celebration of Life will be held for the family and friend on November 25th, 2023, at Monkey Island Lake Center Baptist Church (29020 Ok-125, Afton, OK 74331) from 11:30-3:00 as they gather to honor and remember Elaine's remarkable life. Her memory will forever be etched in their hearts. Elaine Rexwinkle's love, kindness, and unwavering devotion to her family and friends will be deeply missed. Her legacy of love and joy will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know her. May she rest in eternal In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Leukemia Lymphoma Society Or Monkey Island Fire dept. Services have been placed in the care of Brown-Winters Funeral Home and Cremation Service in Fairland. Friends and family may send the family notes of encouragement by viewing Mrs. Rexwinkle's Tribute Page at www.brown-winters.com.

Lois Elaine Rexwinkle

April 5, 1949 - November 13, 2023